January is often a month when people feel inspired to improve their lives to better enjoy the new year. Many people start new diets or enroll in a local community college. Others may start thinking about moving on from an unsatisfying marriage.
January has received the dubious honor of professionals calling it “divorce month.” Many family law attorneys have a significant increase in consultations in January. Many law firms see a 25 to 30% increase in initial divorce consultations in January. As many as a third of all divorces may begin in January, even if spouses technically file paperwork in another month.
What steps might those contemplating a divorce consultation in January need to take?
Begin collecting records
There are numerous forms of documentation typically necessary for a divorce. Financial records, ownership paperwork and even records related to parenting matters can all play critical roles in divorce proceedings. Most people need to begin collecting documentation long before they ever discuss divorce with their spouses or file paperwork with the courts.
Establish reasonable expectations
Popular media depictions of divorce often give people unrealistic ideas about what to expect. They picture a dramatic showdown in family court where a judge gives them justice.
They hope for a support order or property division decree that leaves them with almost everything and their spouse with much less. They may fantasize about raising their kids on their own without the involvement of their spouse.
Spouses need to understand the statutes that apply to divorce proceedings and how a judge is likely to resolve matters given their unique family circumstances. Frequently, it may take weeks or even months after a first consultation for divorce plans to begin taking shape. Spouses often do not file in January, but they may begin the process of preparing for a filing at the beginning of the year.
The sooner people preparing for divorce secure legal guidance and insight, the better their chances of completing their divorce with a favorable outcome. Anyone seriously considering divorce in the New Year may benefit from discussing their circumstances and learning about the law. Contacting the Law and Mediation Office of Jennifer M. Sullivan can be helpful for those considering divorce. Click here or call 916-724-1722 to schedule an initial consultation.
